Better Than Winning
How Couples Grow Stronger by Choosing Connection Over Control
Finally, a love book and a companion card game designed to explore the wins and lessons in marriages and relationships.
BETTER THAN WINNING offers a refreshing, faith-filled path forward—one that uses humor, honesty, and biblical wisdom to break down barriers and build stronger connections. Whether you're dating, married, or rebuilding after hardship, this book equips couples with 83 real-life scenarios rooted in time tested principles to spark honest conversations and relational growth.
Each chapter is a “mini game” using the ALL IN WIN, WIN method—choose from Win-Win, Win-Lose, or Lose-Lose clues, and see how your choices reflect your connection with each other. Add your own notes, reflect on the challenging questions, and use this as a therapeutic tool or a fun couples’ challenge.
More than a book, it’s a game-changing approach to marriage and relationships.
Choose joy. Choose growth. Choose to WIN—together.
About the Author
W. Earl Patterson
W. Earl Patterson is a parent, a mentor and active member of his church community.
He holds a bachelor’s degree in business management. He possesses twenty-five years of leadership and customer service experience.
W. Earl holds certification as a SHRM-CP, Financial Counselor and certified as a Personal Trainer. His passion is for helping people.
He is the author of four published books entitled CLE&R WINDS, Sought Thoughts, Poetic Adventures, Make Your Words Count: The Puzzle Book and creator of The Word: Word Search & Puzzle Book (available via Amazon.com)
His most recent work is highlighted in an array of spectacular stories and scenarios that are positive, spiritual and conveys his unique life expectations.
